We have been friends for fifteen years over, but when miles separate us, do you think that it is the end of our friendship ? do you think can miles truly separate you from your friends ? the others may think so, but not for me and my friends. we have been apart for 2 years over. although we be apart it doesn’t mean we’re not close to each other like how we used to.
I remember that time when I went far away from my family and my friends. at the first time we still in the touch for about 5 months. but after that when I started my new job in other country, my boss give me a hard time because I am a new one here so I have to show I was a hard worker, I have to focus with my job not for other things. I always been away from my handphone and I call home just to ask how my family is doing okay ? and I’ve never been in the touch with my friends. I change my number, and turn off all my sosial media and told my family don’t ever give my number to anyone even my friends. because that time all I want to do is it just to work, work and work cause I want to show the best of my ability in works.
I was keeping busy all the time but I’ve never not to thinking about my friends and how they’re is doing okay ? I wonder if they still thinks about me, but my mother said they’ve been keep asking about me. I’m glad to heard about that from my mother. I really miss them, even we’re be apart and not in the touch for the past 5 months but they’re still in my heart and they will always be my bestfriend no matter what. I can feel that from deep inside my heart.
After 5 months passed, I turn on all my sosial media and contact all of them because I’m not busier like how I was used to be. They was keep asking me where I have been ? why they can’t reach me ? and if I was doing okay all these time. All that I can do is it to explain everything to them and they understand me. my friend told me from now on, no matter happens, no matter where we go, we must keep in the touch and can’t lost contact again. and I come to realized that how importance these people for me. and after the 5 months we’re not in the touch, I’ve never lose contact with them again for 1 year over until right now.
Now we still have to share everything that happens in our lives. good things, bad things, joys and sorrow. we comforting with one another though it is just behind the telephone, video calls, and chating on blackberry messanger. people may think it is impossible. but nothing is impossible.
People that come into our lives for a reason become a part of who we are. they have been part of our lives for many years. it is impossible for me if miles can seperate us.
It is not easy to find a real friends. it is not easy to find people who will accepted you for who you are. it is not easy to find people who believe in you before anyone else did and no one else would. miles can separate you but don’t ever think that you’re not bestfriend anymore. friends is a friends no matter the distance, nothing can ever change that because they have been part of our lives for many years. they’re your bestfriend the real friends that you have in your life. our human diary, and our other half. they stand for us when times get hard and no matter how small the situation, and will make us strong when we become so weak. they making us laugh when we didn’t even want to smile and because of them we laugh a little harder, cry a little less, and smile a lot more. they’re the person who will be there for us even when we can’t be there for ourselves. they will forgive us when we’re hurt them and will. and they will hate the people who hurt us. they’re the perfect one in our lives.
It is not easy to build a friendship. So if you already had now, don’t ever let go. we can lose so much in our lives but we can’t lose our friends. even someday miles will separate you, but friends will be always in our heart.
Miles apart but close at heart